It's been a tough week in our community. When tragedy strikes, it can impact each of us in a different way. Feelings of helplessness, anger, fear, sadness and hope abound. As our family tries to make sense of all that has happened, I have found myself finding more joy in the small things. I no longer take for granted that my two beautiful blessings: Josilin and Luke will be here, as they are, each day. I'm hugging them a whole lot more and annoyed a whole lot less, because today is the only guarantee we have. Moments like these cause me to pause and remember what is important and to worry a whole lot less. Perspective.